Anonymous: Hi. Last night my first true love broke up with me. Have you got any rituals/meditations to heal a broken heart?

Ah, I know how this is. It’s almost been a year and I’m still not fully over my ex boyfriend. We broke up horribly and my life was a complete mess (the breakup being a big part of it but not all of it). 

For spells, any releasing-type and banishing work well. I used an elemental banishing spell which had great success. During the waning moon, you write down what you want banished/released onto four different pieces of paper. One you tear it apart and throw it into the wind representing air, the other you burn (fire), the other you bury (earth), and finally the other you throw into a running stream of water. During each you would say something like, “I banish ______ with the power of (element). It is so, so it will be!” I also used dragon’s blood ink and invoked Danu during this ritual. To top it off I used a black/red candle infused with vervain and other herbs I bought off of a hoodoo witch’s etsy that I truly love and trust. There was also another affirmation I used but I don’t recall what it was. 

I should have wrote this down in my personal grimoire since it was really effective. Best of luck to you, and remember that time heals everything!

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